By ABIBATU LAWANU
A vast majority of women sometimes worry about ageing while few never let it bother them. One 40-year-old, said she tries to keep it in perspective bearing in mind that a positive mental attitude is all important.
“I have time and money to spend on my appearance. There is no reason at all why a woman should not look attractive at 40. She’s not old and can still lead a very active life. “I try to look younger than my age.
Not to attract younger men. I prefer men of my own age group. They are more considerate and generous in their natures. It’s because men in there forties like to think they can attract women younger than themselves. So I let them think I am 36 or 37”.
This woman is 40 and single. She has taken care to preserve her looks, and spends a lot of her wages on cosmetics and clothes. Most women’s attitude mirrored by these women is possible more crucial than any ‘miracle’ anti-wrinkle cream that may appear on the market.
Most options readers praised the wide range of modern cosmetics available – according to one, “it lets ugly ducklings become swans. “Few women go out without make-up. Hair is given high priority and she goes to the hair dresser every week or every month as the case may be.
On the other hand, facials are more of a luxury very small percentage of women have regular facials, others occasionally have one, but the vast majority has never had one in their lives. However, many women would give nature a helping hand if money were no object.
However, as one observer has commended: “society reproaches the women for her aging much earlier in life than the man…..her assets as a ‘woman Object’ rely almost entirely on her only capital of youth and beauty of her maternal role …..Rapidly less sought after than the man and, what is worse, accepting readily the idea of her depreciation, which is marked in our life-style. The aging woman is convinced of her uselessness more often and sooner than the man”. A woman is less afraid of aging than you watch her age
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There are some drugs and injections invented by American Scientists used by some rich old people to raise their hormonal level to that of young people. The drugs, they say, have the potential of reducing winkles, given rosy glow to aging skin. The side effects of such drugs are great because these drugs cannot increase natural lifespan
However, a woman can maintain her figure and ensure that her looks do not deteriorate rapidly.
Reasonable budgeting on cosmetics and other figure and beauty aids is an important active measure to preserve her attractiveness. Most importantly, a woman who wants to maintain healthy body weight must be fully aware of a correct diet, or of merely eating less. A woman can stay attractive and mature handsomely into her sixties by adopting healthy life styles.
After going through several pregnancies, a woman’s body undergoes some changes that may have adverse effects on her shape if not well managed. With regular exercise a woman can still maintain a good body.
Yes she can regain her slim figure after each birth. I know of a woman who has had six children yet she can still compete with young maidens in beauty pageants. She has been able to maintain a super – slim figure by eating healthy food and regular exercises. She looks so good you can’t tell she has given birth at all not to talk of six children.
Today’s woman seen to follow the dictates of the society on how she should be. The bottom line remains that if you do not feel good about your body image it automatically affects how others will feel about you as well.
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